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August 29, 2023

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The journey of manifestation is a path of self-discovery, transformation, and empowerment. It’s about aligning our thoughts, emotions, and energy with our desires to create the reality we envision. However, there’s a subtle yet powerful force that often sabotages our manifestation efforts: judgment and jealousy. These emotions not only hinder our progress but also keep […]

August 10, 2023

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Plus a shit ton of mindset and energy work.  I get asked often “ how do you do it all”  “ I just do” is my answer  It doesn’t feel hard to me, to create a bi weekly podcast, show up on you tube, post on 3x business instargam pages, manage 2 Facebook groups, send […]

August 10, 2023

Creating and maintaining a healthy relationship with money is key to success in business. However, this can be a challenge for women and mums who often have unique money mindset issues due to past experiences, money trauma and even societal conditioning. In this blog post, we’ll explore some tips for overcoming these challenges and building a positive relationship with money.

July 26, 2023

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We don’t really do one-night stands over here, not that there’s anything wrong with that, but its just not the vibe for me Not that I’ve ever had one BTW, but just the idea of sleeping with someone for the first time freaks me out. I won’t know what they like, they will have no […]

July 5, 2023

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How I’m launching should not necessarily be the way you should be launching ✖️ What products I am offering should not necessarily be the products you should be offering ✖️ The way I am marketing should not necessarily be the way you should be marketing ✖️ Because  copy and paste is never the vibe  Something […]

June 13, 2023

 If you’re a woman in business, there’s a good chance you’re making the same mistake as a lot of fempreneurs when it comes to your money mindset. In fact, this mistake is so common among women business owners that it’s almost become the norm.  The mistake I’m referring to is having a scarcity mindset when […]

April 20, 2023

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If you’re a boss babe who’s been crushing it in your business but still charging prices that make you want to cry, it’s time to take a stand and demand the compensation you deserve. However, raising your prices can be intimidating and nerve-wracking. You don’t want to scare off loyal clients or feel like a […]

April 10, 2023

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Ladies, let’s be real. Running a business is tough work. From managing employees to juggling finances, it can take a toll on both our physical and mental health. That’s why I’m here to talk about a little secret weapon that can help us power through those tough days: ice baths. I know what you’re thinking, […]

April 3, 2023

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Lucky Girl Syndrome is a term used to describe a TIK TOK phenomenon where women seem to attract good luck, opportunities, and success effortlessly.  Some attribute this to factors such as beauty, charm, and intelligence. Others believe that the Law of Assumption is at play, where individuals attract what they believe to be true. While […]

March 30, 2023

FILED IN: Money Mindset

Money causes a lot of friction in most relationships, with our parents, with our partners, and even with ourselves.  But it’s often a lot deeper than just managing the right budget, or making more money, often, these frictions and frustrations come from differences in our own belief systems around money, our lived experiences and our […]