The journey of manifestation is a path of self-discovery, transformation, and empowerment. It’s about aligning our thoughts, emotions, and energy with our desires to create the reality we envision. However, there’s a subtle yet powerful force that often sabotages our manifestation efforts: judgment and jealousy. These emotions not only hinder our progress but also keep us stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage. In this blog we’ll delve deeper into the psychology behind how judgment and jealousy can keep us from manifesting our dreams.

The Paradox of Judgment and Jealousy

At first glance, it might seem counterintuitive that judging others and feeling jealous of their success could impact our own journey. After all, shouldn’t we be able to separate our feelings about others from our own desires? The truth lies in the subconscious workings of our minds. When we judge others for having what we desire, we inadvertently create a conflict within ourselves.

Imagine this scenario: You’ve been working on manifesting a thriving career, financial abundance, or a loving relationship. However, when you see someone else achieving the very things you want, negative emotions like jealousy and judgment arise. Deep down, these emotions stem from a fear of becoming what you’ve previously judged – the “bad guy” who has what others might envy. This subconscious fear triggers a self-sabotaging mechanism to ensure you don’t become the person you once judged.

The Self-Sabotage Mechanism

The self-sabotage mechanism triggered by judgment and jealousy works like this: your subconscious mind perceives a conflict between your desires and your judgment of others. To resolve this conflict, it seeks to maintain your self-image as someone who doesn’t possess what you’re judging others for having. This conflict-resolution strategy often involves subconsciously sabotaging your own efforts to manifest those desires. It’s a way of avoiding the discomfort of becoming the person you’ve previously criticized.

For instance, let’s say you desire financial abundance but judge others for being materialistic or greedy. Your subconscious mind, in an attempt to prevent you from becoming someone you’ve criticized, might subtly undermine your financial endeavors. You might find yourself procrastinating, making poor financial decisions, or not fully committing to opportunities that could lead to abundance.

Breaking Free from the Cycle

To break free from the cycle of judgment, jealousy, and self-sabotage, it’s essential to engage in deep self-awareness and inner work:

• Recognize the Pattern: Begin by acknowledging any patterns of judgment and jealousy that arise when you see others achieving what you desire. Understand that these emotions are indicators of inner conflict.
• Challenge Your Beliefs: Examine the beliefs that underlie your judgment and jealousy. Are they based on outdated notions or societal conditioning? Challenge these beliefs and replace them with empowering ones.
• Release the Fear of Becoming: Consciously release the fear of becoming the person you’ve previously judged. Understand that growth and success don’t make you a “bad guy” – they make you a person who’s evolving and achieving their dreams.
• Practice Self-Compassion: Treat yourself with the same empathy and understanding you’d extend to others. Recognize that everyone’s journey is unique, and there’s no need to judge or compare.
• Reframe Success: Shift your perspective on success. Instead of viewing it as a zero-sum game, see it as an abundant universe where there’s enough for everyone. Celebrate others’ success as a testament to what’s possible.

Judgment and jealousy have a profound impact on our manifestation journey, as they create a subconscious conflict that leads to self-sabotage. The fear of becoming what we’ve previously judged can prevent us from fully embracing our desires and manifesting them into reality. By recognizing this pattern, challenging limiting beliefs, releasing fears, practicing self-compassion, and reframing success, we can break free from the cycle and create a harmonious alignment with our dreams. 

Remember, your desires are valid, and your journey is unique. Let go of judgment and jealousy, and embrace the abundance that’s waiting for you.

Learn more about the 4 step manifestation process and how to have it all HERE

x Shona