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August 10, 2023

Creating and maintaining a healthy relationship with money is key to success in business. However, this can be a challenge for women and mums who often have unique money mindset issues due to past experiences, money trauma and even societal conditioning. In this blog post, we’ll explore some tips for overcoming these challenges and building a positive relationship with money.

June 13, 2023

 If you’re a woman in business, there’s a good chance you’re making the same mistake as a lot of fempreneurs when it comes to your money mindset. In fact, this mistake is so common among women business owners that it’s almost become the norm.  The mistake I’m referring to is having a scarcity mindset when […]

April 20, 2023

FILED IN: Business

If you’re a boss babe who’s been crushing it in your business but still charging prices that make you want to cry, it’s time to take a stand and demand the compensation you deserve. However, raising your prices can be intimidating and nerve-wracking. You don’t want to scare off loyal clients or feel like a […]

January 9, 2023

FILED IN: Business

As the new year has arrived we can take this time to reflect on our goals and how we want to move forward in the coming year. For creative women in business, setting goals can be an exciting opportunity to get organised, especially when it comes to creating new initiatives or launching a side hustle. […]

December 25, 2022

FILED IN: Business

It’s that time of the year again when we look back at everything we’ve done in the past year. And while it has undoubtedly been a year of local and global ups and downs, I’m always looking for that silver lining. Usually, the sentimental moments happen for me with a glass of bubbles in the […]

December 15, 2022

FILED IN: Business

Although December can be a time of joy and celebration, it’s also a time when many women in business feel the pressure to succeed. With end-of-year goals looming, cash flow stalling and the holiday season just around the corner, it’s easy to get overwhelmed. That’s why it’s important to take a step back and focus […]

November 30, 2022

FILED IN: Business

Now that the holiday season is here, it’s time to think about more than just gifts and decorations. December is a great time to invest in yourself and your business by working with a coach or mentor. If you’re ready to get serious about your dreams and business growth for 2023, then read on for […]

November 27, 2022

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It was a toxic cycle of charging more, over-deliver, so charging more and over-deliver. Sell people into a thousand-dollar a month coaching package and then double down on the value.

November 20, 2022

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November 18, 2022

FILED IN: Business

As a business coach, one of the most important things you can do is set boundaries for how many clients you work with. This may seem like a counterintuitive thing to do, but hear me out! When you set boundaries, you are ensuring that you can give each client the individualized attention and deep support […]