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Consistency Isn’t a Vibe, It’s the key: How to Show Up Like a CEO Even When You Don’t Feel Like It

Consistency is the key to showing up liek a CEO even when you dont feel like it

Let’s be real for a second, babe… You don’t have a consistency problem. You have a structure problem. And every time you tell yourself you’re just “not consistent enough”….you’re gaslighting your own potential.

Consistency isn’t a vibe you wake up with on a Monday. It’s not something reserved for “disciplined” people. It’s a weapon. The difference between a woman who hopes for a 6-figure year and a woman who builds it brick by brick.

So if you’re sick of starting over every quarter, ghosting your own goals, and living in that “I know what to do but I’m not doing it” spiral… This one’s for you.


Let’s Break the Consistency Myth: You’re Not Lazy, You’re Under-Resourced

Most of my high-achieving clients come to me believing they’re lazy or scattered. You know what they actually are?

Overwhelmed, under-supported, and trying to wing it without a system.

You don’t need to “try harder” babe. You need a framework. One that supports your creativity, your cycle, your chaos… and still gets shit done.


What Consistency Really Looks Like (Hint: It’s Not Perfect)

We’re not aiming for every day, we’re aiming for every week.

We’re not aiming for “never miss a post,” we’re aiming for impactful visibility over random noise.

Consistency in business is about:

  • Showing up for the needle-movers.
  • Tracking what’s working.
  • Building rituals that run even when your motivation doesn’t.

Consistency = momentum. And momentum builds cash flow, confidence, and client trust. It’s the compound interest of your business.


The Top 5 Reasons You’re Struggling to Stay Consistent

Let’s go there. Here’s what’s actually in your way:

1. Your goals are vague AF.

“I want to grow my biz” doesn’t cut it. Try: “I’ll sell out my offer with 15 signups by June 1st using Instagram, email, and direct outreach.”

2. You’re planning like a Pinterest board, not a CEO.

You don’t need 10 goals. You need ONE quarterly focus and a breakdown into 3 action phases. Simplicity scales.

3. You’re relying on motivation, not systems.

Newsflash: Motivation is flaky. You need rituals, habits, and accountability that hold even on your off days.

4. You’re measuring the wrong things.

If you don’t know your audience growth rate, content conversions, or revenue sources—you’re throwing spaghetti.

5. You’re doing it alone.

Accountability isn’t just for beginners—it’s for smart women who want results faster. Your power grows in community.


Here’s How I Teach My Clients to Stay Consistent (Even When They’re Neurodivergent, Multi-Passionate, or Over It)

This is the exact framework I’ve built inside my 90 Day Challenge ….because real talk? You don’t need another goal. You need a game plan.

Step 1: Plan like a CEO

→ Choose ONE main focus for 90 days → Break it into 3 clear phases → Map weekly priorities and KPIs → Track them weekly (I give you the trackers)

Step 2: Layer in Habit Goals

→ What do you need to do daily or weekly to support this focus? → Examples: “Post 3x per week,” “DM 10 leads,” “Go live every Monday”

Step 3: Build the System

→ Batch content → Use Notion to track sales + leads → Automate what you can → Know your metrics

Step 4: Create Ruthless Accountability

→ Weekly check-ins (with me + the group) → Trackers that give you receipts → A space to call you forward when you slack


What Consistency Creates (That No One Talks About)

  • Confidence: You start trusting yourself again.
  • Credibility: Your audience knows you’re the real deal.
  • Cashflow: Because you’re showing up for the offers that sell.
  • Freedom: You stop reinventing the wheel every damn week.

And babe… that’s where the magic happens.


Still Think You Just Need More Motivation?

Let me lovingly call you out: If you could’ve “just done it,” you would’ve by now.

This is your line in the sand moment.

Because 90 days from now, you could either:

  • Be in the same place, still feeling stuck and scattered OR
  • Be showing up like the boss you were born to be, with real results, clarity, and a full bank account to match

Here’s Your Next Move

The 90 Day Challenge is where consistency stops being a dream and becomes your new normal.

This isn’t some fluffy course or mindset journal. It’s:

  • Real strategy
  • Real tracking
  • Real accountability
  • Real momentum

You in?

Because the woman who moves… gets everything she wants. Let’s fucking go.

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4/05/2025

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Consistency Isn’t a Vibe, It’s the key: How to Show Up Like a CEO Even When You Don’t Feel Like It

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