elite membership

The SEXY SELFISH ELITE is all about unlocking the most authentic and badass best YOU, and creating an incredible new future with habits that LAST ! and doing it with a community of other women cheering you on !This is the beginning of a happier, calmed, more authentic and purposeful YOU.

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The time is now, you are worthy, you are enough ... you can trust yourself to take this leap 

to the elite ...


The Elite membership is for the woman who makes it happen no matter what it takes.
The woman who doesn’t ask for a discount or special circumstances
The woman who is ready to take full responsibility
The woman who knows and owns that she creates her life
The woman who is ready to let go of her excuses
The woman who might be a bit nervous, but who gives fear two middle fingers
The woman who is ready to take care of herself even when she’s "busy"
The woman who is ready to show up every day in her truth, shout freely what she knows the world needs to hear and who won't care what people think about her.


are you that woman?

Does this sound familiar?

You’re ready to totally transform your relationship with money, and your business to begin attracting wealth easier than ever before ?

But there’s a problem - you dont know where to start, and you dont want to go it alone...

You can see other people being successful at managing and growing their brands and business but you just cant quite figure out how to do it for yourself.

You feel like theres never enough money,time,energy, constantly stuck in  a mindset of lack and poverty, no matter how much money you make, or new clients you book the feeling never goes away. 

you are craving the support from being surround by other mums on a similar journey who just “get it”.I mean your husband is great and all, but he doesn’t really understand why paying your bills during Mercury retrograde can feel totally fucked.

You've wasted countless hours on social media, you tube and books trying to put it all together but you still feel like your taking one step forward and two steps back.





"I'ts the place I feel seen and heard"

Shona and the Sexy Selfish Elite is a place that I feel safe and heard and inspired. It picks me up after a bad day and reminds me that the universe answers my order so I need to be mindful for what I ask for


The point of a mastermind/membership is to get around people who are really your kind of people, who like what you like, know about shit you are interested in and kind of just get YOU! 

But maybe and hopefully they have just a little bit more experience actually doing the do… than you do. 

Who are maybe just a few steps ahead of you, (which is important, even though it can feel uncomfortable) because to really and truly uplevel into the next version of you, you have to surround yourself with people who inspire and push that growth from you.  The point of the Sexy Selfish Elite Membership, specifically, is to step into your next level of abundance … together. From a place of totally owning the authentic YOU, connecting with your higher self and deciding what you are and aren't available for. Trusting that you CAN have it all, that your desires are enough and that you are worthy of abundance, joy, love, and hell even multiple orgasms if you desire. 

It's all yours. 

Whats the point... 

Why a membership ? 

Trust yourself ... 

The Elite membership 

for mums who want more 


Lets break it down ...

Heres what you will learn

outcome 1 

In this membership you'll be connected to other women, like you seeking more. and with those incredible connections you never know where you might find your new business besties, your next colab, client or even contractor. this is a powerful group of women, and together we are excited to welcome you. 

Find your support system 

Outcome 2 

Strategy for success 

discover systems and strategies, tools and hacks to grow your business in a way thats aligned with you, your goals and your values. from budgeting like a badass, to raising your prices,  selling with soul to social media strategy ... you'll learn it all.  

outcome 3 

Create a magnetic money mindset 

learn about the true habits of the wealthy woman, AND DISCOVER HOW TO COMPLETELY REWIRE YOUR MINDSET to attract and receive WEALTH. to be paid with ease, to feel confident with wealth and grow your business like a true ceo. 

outcome 4 

create more $$$ opportunities 

Learn how to hack your brain to notice more money making opportunities each day, begin to see how easy it is to create more abundance each day. diversify your income streams and create money and wealth in a way that feels FUCK-YES to your soul.  

How does this sound ?

What if i told you that you could 


find calm in the ever elusive life/work/motherhood balance that i know you really desire. 


learn how to manage and grow your business without having to do the things that make you feel gross and weird. because webinars suck even more when you hate doing them. 


Learn how to manifest true success and abundance on ever level fast, without the fluffiness of dancing in the moon light or sticking a rose quartz up your ass. 


Tap into the wealthy woman you know you are truly meant to be and start living your dream life and business TODAY. 

Yes, I'm in !

Ruby has worked with hundreds of female-led entrepreneurs to build and grow their online businesses using Instagram. With over 6 years of marketing experience, she has managed countless events, social media accounts, course builds and product launches, scaling her own business along the way.  She helps business owners build their own 6 figure business through simple organic strategies, building a magnetic brand that truly reflects their own business and aligned energetics that bring in dream clients. She is a huge believer in working smarter, not harder and her approach is to simplify business and marketing so you build and grow a sustainable business that works for you and your life.


Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

Consultant and marketing expert

With 20 years of Marketing & Communications experience across multiple industries. Dianne launched Topknot in early 2020 as I wanted to offer my unique blend of skills and experience into what she calls a 'fluid fusion' of Marketing, PR & Communications services to businesses. Her integrated & holistic approach for each client is as unique as they are ensuring that maximum results are achieved. She has a passion for working with individuals & business owners to elevate their profile, position their brand as an industry leader and help them reel in the $$ via market saturation & identification of new growth opportunities.

 DIanne Dumanovic

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Public Relations Expert 

I'm Rochelle, founder, virtual assistant, and lead biz bestie here at Not Your Problem.First and foremost  I'm an experienced admin enthusiast with over 12 years in administration and customer services roles under my belt, I've worked more recently as an SSO and for the last 6 years as a mama that likes to get sh*t done! That sounds like a winning combo if I do say so myself! My passion is simple, help incredible humans - like you - get time back to enjoy the things they love most. I want to empower my clients to take control of their time and spend it wisely and in their zone of genius.Outsourcing looks different to everyone depending on your goals; maybe more time with your kids, or more holidays, scaling your business or growing a team. Whatever it looks like, I'll be in your corner every step of the way!


Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

Strategies + Systems  VA

Melanie Kaye is bringing the Advantage back to women and their bodies. After 8 years as a clinical exercise physiologist + strength coach - it just wasn’t enough to make women physically strong. It was time to teach women how their mind, bodies + lifestyle worked together to their Advantage. After a long + traumatic journey with PCOS herself, then helping women all over Australia rid themselves of their symptoms leading them to live their absolute BEST life - Her Advantage was born.Her advantage is an online coaching program for women who are ready to ditch the health BS + treat their bodies like the powerhouse they know it can be. 

 Mel Kaye 

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Head coach + Founder of Her Advantage

Meet Sandra Senn. An Irish powerhouse and the of Business Mums Hub. This bubbly ball of energy has worked around the world, running large teams, overseeing sales and marketing, and working in events. However, many of you will also know Sandra as the owner of Hashtag Insta Prints, a Business she grew after having 2 gorgeous kids (3 if you count her techy-savvy gamer husband) to give her the freedom and lifestyle she wanted.

 Sandra Senn 

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Business Mums Hub + Hashtaginstaprints

Hi, I am Bridget Johns, a declutter coach, life organiser and the founder of Be Simply Free.
Be Simply Free blossomed from my desire to combine my love of positive psychology, organising and decluttering. To become a declutter coach, I studied and became a certified Beautiful You Life Coach, an accredited Standard Mental Health First Aider (through Mental Health First Aid Australia), and I hold a Diploma of Positive Psychology and Wellbeing. I also use my business organisation skills obtained through 16 years in project management roles along with my formal business studies of a Master of Business Administration. 

 Bridget Johns 

Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

Professional decluttering queen 

Hi! I'm Juliet I am completely obsessed with understanding how we can recreate excellence in our lives as a result of a complete life change back in 2014. As a result of a huge spiritual awakening and going on my own personal transformation I am now living a life that reflects living a life of my highest potential. I have worked with hundreds of clients all over the world (I have had clients in Europe, Canada, US, Bali and Australia) how to relaunch their lives, let go of the past, find themselves again and create a new life from the inside out. And now, I specialise in working with people who want to make a difference in the world build skills to help others either in a coaching context or by following their dreams themselves.

Juliet Lever

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best-selling author and NLP trainer

Vanessa's business card says Virtual CFO but in reality she’s a numbers magician; alchemizing her clients numbers to reveal the truth that has often been hiding in plain sight.
From a family of small business owners and with a lifelong vision of helping purpose-driven organisations to thrive, Vanessa established Vision Beyond Advisory in 2010 after returning to Australia after working in the finance industry in the UK.Loved by her clients and team, Vanessa has a reputation for practical, straightforward and jargon-free advice, with an emphasis on helping business owners achieve better balance by building a business that supports their values, community, teams and families. A respectful guide and fearless questioner, Vanessa is a firm advocate that only the truth can set you free. Once the truth is revealed, the path becomes clearer and the right choices easier to spot.

Vanessa Bamford

Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

strategic business consultant virtual CFO

Hi! I am Kathryn Adams, and I am a commercial lawyer of twenty years experience. I have had a pretty wild career, having been based around the world (including Australia, Singapore and the United Kingdom), specialising in the vast areas of commercial, corporate and employment law. 

People know me as the assertive, “no-nonsense” lawyer who avoids the “pomp and ceremony” and just focuses on getting the job done.


Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

no-nonsense lawyer 

Hayley has been a Financial Adviser since 2010, and prior to that worked in various sectors in the Financial Services Industry including commercial banking and home lending.
Hayley launched Dyson Financial in December 2017. She holds an MBA, a Masters in International Finance (Financial Planning), the Advanced Diploma in Financial Services (Financial Planning), a Bachelor of Business and a Bachelor of Applied Finance.Hayley is passionate about helping her clients meet their goals, and ensuring they have an adequate ‘Plan B’ in place.She specialises in Personal Protection, Superannuation, Retirement Planning and investments.

Hayley Dyson 

Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

Financial Advisor 

I was a workaholic! I can relate to the heavy paper weight feeling being on your chest not being able to breathe. Burnout, fatigue and exhaustion become my reality resulting in a chronic illness.  This made me realise you can have a career and also introduce ways to relive pressure and still be successful. I support business owners in improving efficiency, time management, profitability giving them time and space to breathe. 

Jessica Conner

Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

burnout survivor + selfcare expert 

Claire is the founder of Mamahood My Way, a podcast and movement to shine a light on helping Mums do things THEIR way - zero apologies, heaps more joy and way less guilt. After her own post-partum in 2021 left her feeling suffocated in unrealistic societal expectations and spiralling in the hectic ‘shoulds’ of social media, a breakdown that almost broke up her family led Claire down a path of self-discovery and development that flipped the switch on being Mum.Now she fills her cup & finds joy in every day life while working part-time, running two businesses alongside showing up as a happier co-parent - even through the current toddler-tantrums! Claire is now wildly passionate about helping other Mamas learn strategies and tools for taking time for themselves with ease and joy. Through the Mamahood My Way Method, Claire’s hope is for every Mama to tap into their superpowers, create more time freedom, feel their best self, and live a more fulfilled life on the daily, weekly, monthly, all the damn time. Because not only are we worth it, we bloody deserve it! 


Meet our 2023 Guest Experts 

Podcast host and self care advocate

How it works 

Online portal 

Not only did i put together a life changing membership with monthly content drops , but because i have 0 chill, of course you guys are getting access to epic online learning portal , meditations, playlists and goodies to set your magnetic wealthy woman energy from the get go. shall we dive in ... 

Q+A sessions  

2x times a month i go live in the facebook group And as a group in ZOOM to speak on a key topic, and asnwer any and all questions you might have for me about literally anything, im an open book for my elite girls, and trust me we get to know each other VERY well over the space of 12 months together 
plus each month i bring in an epic quest speaker to train yall too. 

Monthly Content focus 

they say it takes 28 days to break a habit and 28 days to make a new one which is why each month in the elite we have a specific topic, focus and training. some months its self care, other times its profit margins some months boundaries, other months orgasmic manifestation. every month we go deeper into you, and your inner wealthy woman. 

Kind words

So many takeaways, but Knowing and understanding my money personality. I also realised how I can do small things to make feel more abundant. I feel the clearest I’ve ever felt on what I want for my life and for my family."




together we rise ...

Yes, it really works!

Sandra achieved every goal she set. 

I did what you told me, I wrote down on a big piece of paper all the things that I wanted to achieve for the year.  I wrote it all down in detail and then went about my year. 6 moths later, not only had I achieved EVERYTHING on the paper but I had gotten EVEN MORE."


Ashlea healed a toxic money cycle 

"Money feels good now

"Before I took the course I was scared to spend money and spent so much time counting dollars and trying to save, there was never enough. Now I feel grateful for what we have, I know more ways for money to flow in and my thinking around money is so much more positive. Money feels good now.My thinking has completely changed. My life has completely changed. Feeling so positive about money and the future was worth every cent and I can not recommend this course more."

Leah learnt more than she imagined. 

"so glad i signed up 

"I now feel empowered instead of stuck, I have opened up communications with my partner about finances, and lost that icky feeling that came up whenever I had to deal with bills, budgeting etc. This is the perfect mix of smart savvy advice mixed with woo woo hippy stuff, so glad I signed up."

Select the payment option that works for you 

Most affordable 

Best value 

payment plan 

one payment 

Full 12 months online elite access 

private support group 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

private support group 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

pay in full bonus, 30 minute call with shona 

12 payments of $222

1 payment of $2664

Full 12 months online elite access 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

4 x  gifts from team SS

4 x gifts from team SS

You are in the right place... 

The time is now... 

Can you feel that sense of excitement, exhilaration and possibility simmering underneath the fear of saying YES? When there are hope and possibility under the fear or uncertainty .. then I know it's time to leap.

 That’s when I know I am being guided and stretched so that I can grow.
When we take action from this space of inspiration and empowered purpose, incredible things happen, crazy things happen. Joy, wealth, success, adventure ... it all happens.

I believe in this process so strongly, so deeply, this is my life’s work, my legacy. And if you feel like this is the next step on your path to a more aligned + abundant future, then I will be so honoured to guide you.


Enrol today and get my 2 best selling Ebooks for free 

In Goodbye money guilt + Hello Abundance Shona will teach you the principles of money mindset that will heal and clear your resistance to wealth and show you how to attract more abundance into your life every single day with ease, fun and alignment. 

Lets do this!

By the end of this, you will

have confidence in yourself, and your financial capabilities

finally trust yourself with business goals, decisions and soul led strategy 

have bank accounts are in total over flow and growing every day. and your helping more and more people every day 

be surrounded by your soul sisters, and business besties that are cheering you on no matter what 

enrol now 

"Everything is soo clear now !

I manifested 5 new clients this week .... since i joined, I have now got clear on what I want to do with my coaching practice and my life... everything is soo clear now !


Education, Support + Community 

shona Gates... 

meet your teacher 

Money Mindset expert and business coach Shona Gates is passionate about helping women worldwide transform their relationship with money. As a serial entrepreneur and coach, Shona began to notice a reoccurring theme in her development journey and in her clients' mindset work. 

 Money was the block that kept popping up over and over again. Determined to get rid of money guilt for good, Shona spent years transforming her relationship with money, and she vowed that as she learned and mastered this, she would share it with as many women as possible. 

Shona Gates has employed different means to reach as many people as possible across the globe. In her online courses, memberships and the new book, she shares her wealth of experience garnered over the years coaching women from all walks of life to embrace the success mindset and get rid of money guilt FOR GOOD.

Your sex positive, potty mouth  money mindset coach

The time is now, you are worthy, you are enough ... I wouldn't wait 

During 12 months in the Sexy Selfish Elite, you have full access to ME, and my support team. Ask me questions, Pick my brains and let's transform our money mindset and manifest TOGETHER. I will and do hold total space for you, I created this container so you have a place where you can be trusted, cared for and supported whilst on this journey. To be surrounded by other women WHO‌ GET‌ IT‌!‌



This membership is the only one of its kind because...

Step into your full badass sovereignty

IT MIGHT FEEL SCARY AND NOW, STEPPING INTO IT.‌ AND YES IT WILL PROBABLY STRETCH YOU AND ASK YOU TO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST IN THE UNIVERSE WHERE MAYBE YOU HAVEN'T BEFORE.But slowly and surely you will see the self-sabotaging patterns more clearly, you will be able to step into a place of more conscious co-creating with the universe and you will be able to face up to your relationship with money head on …. writing new rules, deciding new outcomes and relaxing into fully trusting the YOU that you are meant to be. 

in a nutshell ...

THE SEXY SELFISH ELITE is a paid 12-month membership program and community for Mums who want more, more abundance, success and joy Hosted by Shona Gates (that's me, duh)
Tis high vibe VIP 12-month membership is really about  mastering the mindset behind creating an abundant, exciting, aligned and authentic life – on every freakin’ level.

This is an online learning portal and community that teaches you the mindset, strategy and tactics behind rediscovering the most BADASS abundant YOU.

We’re a community of kind-hearted and totally badass babes, who desire more abundance, influence and impact, doing what we love!

and we cant wait to welcome you in ...


Enrol today and get Daily Abundance affirmations SMS

gain the power to create your own reality by repeating these daily affirmations. You will feel supported and encouraged on this journey towards becoming wealthy woman With daily SMS Affirmations.

Lets do this!

 Study at your
 Own pace 

written, video + audio
learning options

 grow your support

 follow a proven roadmap

money isn't just about numbers, strategy and restriction. Money is about energy, frequency, and embodiment.

If you want THIS to be the year that you *finally* commit to:

A life filled with abundance and wealth is in your reach, you just need to know how to unlock it!

Actually learning about business strategy, growth and scaling with soul

Setting up a badass budget that works for you, your family and your unique goals. without sacrificing the things you love.

Doing the deeper work to heal your  relationship with money, wealth and abundance. and unlock your wealth woman 

Rewire and create new wealth codes for true abundance in every single area of your life. 

Growing your confidence and self trust in yourself, your business and your capabilities . releasing fear shame and judgment. 

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Enrol today and  Get 4x gifts posted to you a year 

There are so many positives  to being in an online membership, but sometimes the lack of "physical" can make us feel disconnected from the journey. It's important to me and my team  that we create physical anchors to the Sexy Selfish Elite experience. so each quater we organise a very special gift to be posted to each member, whether thats a special journal, candle, sage cleansing kit, jewellery or affirmation card deck. we believe in spoiling our Elite members. 

Lets do this!

Select the payment option that works for you 

Most affordable 

Best value 

payment plan 

one payment 

Full 12 months online elite access 

private support group 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

private support group 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

pay in full bonus, 30 minute call with shona 

12 payments of $222

1 payment of $2664

Full 12 months online elite access 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

4 x  gifts from team SS

4 x gifts from team SS

Babe, creating a life that’s more amazing than you could ever dream of, is actually a lot simpler than you realise.

And I’m going to prove it to you … 

Still on the fence? 

I completely understand. Every dollar invested in your business and self growth is an important one! Send me an email and I'll help you decide if the elite membership  Is right for you. 

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