elite membership

The SEXY SELFISH ELITE is all about unlocking the most authentic and badass best YOU, and creating an incredible new future with habits that LAST ! and doing it with a community of other women cheering you on !This is the beginning of a happier, calmed, more authentic and purposeful YOU.

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The time is now, you are worthy, you are enough ... you can trust yourself to take this leap 

to the elite ...


The Elite membership is for the woman who makes it happen no matter what it takes.
The woman who doesn’t ask for a discount or special circumstances
The woman who is ready to take full responsibility
The woman who knows and owns that she creates her life
The woman who is ready to let go of her excuses
The woman who might be a bit nervous, but who gives fear two middle fingers
The woman who is ready to take care of herself even when she’s "busy"
The woman who is ready to show up every day in her truth, shout freely what she knows the world needs to hear and who won't care what people think about her.


are you that woman?

Does this sound familiar?

You’re ready to totally transform your relationship with money, and your business to begin attracting wealth easier than ever before ?

But there’s a problem - you dont know where to start, and you dont want to go it alone...

You can see other people being successful at managing and growing their brands and business but you just cant quite figure out how to do it for yourself.

You feel like theres never enough money,time,energy, constantly stuck in  a mindset of lack and poverty, no matter how much money you make, or new clients you book the feeling never goes away. 

you are craving the support from being surround by other mums on a similar journey who just “get it”.I mean your husband is great and all, but he doesn’t really understand why paying your bills during Mercury retrograde can feel totally fucked.

You've wasted countless hours on social media, you tube and books trying to put it all together but you still feel like your taking one step forward and two steps back.





"I'ts the place I feel seen and heard"

Shona and the Sexy Selfish Elite is a place that I feel safe and heard and inspired. It picks me up after a bad day and reminds me that the universe answers my order so I need to be mindful for what I ask for


The point of a mastermind is to get around people who are really your kind of people, who like what you like, know about shit you are interested in and kind of just get YOU! 

But maybe and hopefully they have just a little bit more experience actually doing the do… then you do. 

Who are maybe just a few steps ahead of you, (which is important, even though it can feel uncomfortable) because to really and truly uplevel into the next version of you, you have to surround yourself with people who inspire and push that growth from you.  The point of the Sexy Selfish Elite Mastermind, specifically, is to step into your next level of abundance … together. From a place of totally owning the authentic YOU, connecting with your higher self and deciding what you are and aren't available for. Trusting that you CAN have it all, that your desires are enough and that you are worthy of abundance, joy, love, and hell even multiple orgasms if you desire. 

It's all yours. 

Whats the point... 

Why a membership ? 

Trust yourself ... 

The Elite Membership


From forgiveness, to manifesting money, From orgasms to organising your office, From making new friends to drinking more water. From pricing your products to creating email funnels. 
Each month we will focus on building new habits, together, and layer and layer those habits until the best version of you begins to emerge.

Lets break it down ...

Heres what you will learn

outcome 1 

In this membership you'll be connected to other women, like you seeking more. and with those incredible connections you never know where you might find your new business besties, your next colab, client or even contractor. this is a powerful group of women, and together we are excited to welcome you. 

find your support system 

Outcome 2 

Strategy for success 

discover systems and strategies, tools and hacks to grow your business in a way thats aligned with you, your goals and your values. from budgeting like a badass, to raising your prices,  selling with soul to social media strategy ... you'll learn it all.  

outcome 3 

Create a magnetic money mindset 

learn about the true habits of the wealthy woman, AND DISCOVER HOW TO COMPLETELY REWIRE YOUR MINDSET to attract and receive WEALTH. to be paid with ease, to feel confident with wealth and grow your business like a true ceo. 

outcome 4 

create more $$$ opportunities 

Learn how to hack your brain to notice more money making opportunities each day, begin to see how easy it is to create more abundance each day. diversify your income streams and create money and wealth in a way that feels FUCK-YES to your soul.  

How does this sound ?

What if i told you that you could 


find calm in the ever elusive life/work/motherhood balance that i know you really desire. 


learn how to manage and grow your business without having to do the things that make you feel gross and weird. because webinars suck even more when you hate doing them. 


Learn how to manifest true success and abundance on ever level fast, without the fluffiness of dancing in the moon light or sticking a rose quartz up your ass. 


Tap into the wealthy woman you know you are truly meant to be and start living your dream life and business TODAY. 

Yes, I'm in !

How it works 

Online portal 

Not only did i put together a life changing membership with monthly content drops , but because i have 0 chill, of course you guys are getting access to epic onlien learning portal , meditations, playlists and goodies to set your magnetic wealthy woman energy from the get go. shall we dive in ... 

Q+A sessions  

2x times a month i go live in the facebook group to speak on a key topic, and asnwer any and all questions you might have for me about literally anything, im an open book for my elite girls, and trust me we get to know each other VERY well over the space of 12 months together 
plus each month i bring in an epic quest speaker to train yall too. 

Monthly Content focus 

they say it takes 28 days to break a habit and 28 days to make a new one which is why each month in the elite we have a specific topic, focus and training. some months its self care, other times its profit margins some months boundaries, other months orgasmic manifestation. every month we go deeper into you, and your inner wealthy woman. 

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So many takeaways, but Knowing and understanding my money personality. I also realised how I can do small things to make feel more abundant. I feel the clearest I’ve ever felt on what I want for my life and for my family."



A year from now your life + Business could look vastly more abundant

So lets start today 

Yes, it really works!

Sandra achieved every goal she set. 

I did what you told me, I wrote down on a big piece of paper all the things that I wanted to achieve for the year.  I wrote it all down in detail and then went about my year. 6 moths later, not only had I achieved EVERYTHING on the paper but I had gotten EVEN MORE."


Ashlea healed a toxic money cycle 

"Money feels good now

"Before I took the course I was scared to spend money and spent so much time counting dollars and trying to save, there was never enough. Now I feel grateful for what we have, I know more ways for money to flow in and my thinking around money is so much more positive. Money feels good now.My thinking has completely changed. My life has completely changed. Feeling so positive about money and the future was worth every cent and I can not recommend this course more."

Leah learnt more than she imagined. 

"so glad i signed up 

"I now feel empowered instead of stuck, I have opened up communications with my partner about finances, and lost that icky feeling that came up whenever I had to deal with bills, budgeting etc. This is the perfect mix of smart savvy advice mixed with woo woo hippy stuff, so glad I signed up."

Select the payment option that works for you 

Most affordable 

Best value 

payment plan 

one payment 

Full 12 months online elite access 

private support group 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

private support group 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

pay in full bonus, 30 minute call with shona 

12 payments of $111

1 payment of $1332

Full 12 months online elite access 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

You are in the right place... 

The time is now... 

Can you feel that sense of excitement, exhilaration and possibility simmering underneath the fear of saying YES? When there are hope and possibility under the fear or uncertainty .. then I know it's time to leap.

 That’s when I know I am being guided and stretched so that I can grow.
When we take action from this space of inspiration and empowered purpose, incredible things happen, crazy things happen. Joy, wealth, success, adventure ... it all happens.

I believe in this process so strongly, so deeply, this is my life’s work, my legacy. And if you feel like this is the next step on your path to a more aligned + abundant future, then I will be so honoured to guide you.


Enrol today and get my 2 best selling Ebooks for free 

In Goodbye money guilt + Hello Abundance Shona will teach you the principles of money mindset that will heal and clear your resistance to wealth and show you how to attract more abundance into your life every single day with ease, fun and alignment. 

Lets do this!

By the end of this, you will

You have confidence in yourself, and your financial capabilities

You finally trust yourself with business goals, decisions and soul led strategy 

Your bank accounts are in total over flow and growing every day. and your helping more and more people every day 

your surrounded by your soul sisters, and business besties that are cheering you on no matter what 

enrol now 

Select the payment option that works for you 

Most affordable 

Best value 

payment plan 

one payment 

Full 12 months online elite access 

private support group 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

private support group 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

pay in full bonus, 30 minute call with shona 

12 payments of $111

1 payment of $1332

Full 12 months online elite access 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

"Everything is soo clear now !

I manifested 5 new clients this week .... since i joined, I have now got clear on what I want to do with my coaching practice and my life... everything is soo clear now !


shona Gates... 

meet your teacher 

Money Mindset expert and business coach Shona Gates is passionate about helping women worldwide transform their relationship with money. As a serial entrepreneur and coach, Shona began to notice a reoccurring theme in her development journey and in her clients' mindset work. 

 Money was the block that kept popping up over and over again. Determined to get rid of money guilt for good, Shona spent years transforming her relationship with money, and she vowed that as she learned and mastered this, she would share it with as many women as possible. 

Shona Gates has employed different means to reach as many people as possible across the globe. In her online courses, memberships and the new book, she shares her wealth of experience garnered over the years coaching women from all walks of life to embrace the success mindset and get rid of money guilt FOR GOOD.

Your sex positive, potty mouth  money mindset coach

The time is now, you are worthy, you are enough ... I wouldn't wait 

During 12 months in the Sexy Selfish Elite, you have full access to ME, and my support team. Ask me questions, Pick my brains and let's transform our money mindset and manifest TOGETHER. I will and do hold total space for you, I created this container so you have a place where you can be trusted, cared for and supported whilst on this journey. To be surrounded by other women WHO‌ GET‌ IT‌!‌



This membership is the only one of its kind because...

step into your full badass sovereignty

IT MIGHT FEEL SCARY AND NOW, STEPPING INTO IT.‌ AND YES IT WILL PROBABLY STRETCH YOU AND ASK YOU TO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST IN THE UNIVERSE WHERE MAYBE YOU HAVEN'T BEFORE.But slowly and surely you will see the self-sabotaging patterns more clearly, you will be able to step into a place of more conscious co-creating with the universe and you will be able to face up to your relationship with money head on …. writing new rules, deciding new outcomes and relaxing into fully trusting the YOU that you are meant to be. 

in a nutshell ...

THE SEXY SELFISH ELITE is a paid 12-month membership program and community for Mums who want more, more abundance, success and joy Hosted by Shona Gates (that's me, duh)
Tis high vibe VIP 12-month membership is really about  mastering the mindset behind creating an abundant, exciting, aligned and authentic life – on every freakin’ level.

This is an online learning portal and community that teaches you the mindset, strategy and tactics behind rediscovering the most BADASS abundant YOU.

We’re a community of kind-hearted and totally badass babes, who desire more abundance, influence and impact, doing what we love!

and we cant wait to welcome you in ...

 Study at your
 Own pace 

written, video + audio
learning options

 grow your support

 follow a proven roadmap

ready to step into your most wealthy self ?

Elite membership

Abundant AF  is a 6-part program designed to totally transform the way women earn, spend, save and attract MONEY!

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If you want THIS to be the year that you *finally* commit to:

A life filled with abundance and wealth is in your reach, you just need to know how to unlock it!

Actually learning about business strategy, growth and scaling with soul

Setting up a badass budget that works for you, your family and your unique goals. without sacrificing the things you love.

Doing the deeper work to heal your  relationship with money, wealth and abundance. and unlock your wealth woman 

Rewire and create new wealth codes for true abundance in every single area of your life. 

Growing your confidence and self trust in yourself, your business and your capabilities . releasing fear shame and judgment. 

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money isn't just about numbers, strategy and restriction. Money is about energy, frequency, and embodiment.

lets be honest right now ...  

This is for you if ...

This is probably not for you if ... 

You not only signed up to all the webinars and reads all the books, but you took action on the things you learn' online course 

You are maybe afraid or nervous, but you are ready to show the universe your here to go big or go home baby.

You are sooo ready to be surrounded by like minded, fiercely positive, always ambitious badass women like yourself, to feel truly heard and understood in your quest for growth and abundance.

More than anything, you're ready to make BANK, to call in that dream business, pay check, and LIFE. pack 

You are vibing with everything I am saying right now energetically. You are starting to feel that tingle. You want more. You long for more... you know you are worth more! 

You're wanting someone to wave a magic wand and just fix it all for you .

You're committed to your old belief system, stuck in fear town and mayor of comfort zone county.. You and I both know your not ready to actually do the do. 

Theres no spark, no excitement, no buzz as your thinking about your future. 

You can't even remember the last time ( if ever) that you picked up a personal development book, podcast or youtube. This probably isn't the beginner course for you. 

Select the payment option that works for you 

Most affordable 

Best value 

payment plan 

one payment 

Full 12 months online elite access 

private support group 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

private support group 

Bonus portal + Meditation pack 

badass budget calculator 

pay in full bonus, 30 minute call with shona 

12 payments of $111

1 payment of $1332

Full 12 months online elite access 

Monthly ebooks + 6 week journal 


So, what are you waiting for ...

Sexy Selfish Elite, 12 month online membership community  

Babe, creating a life that’s more amazing than you could ever dream of, is actually a lot simpler than you realise.

And I’m going to prove it to you … 

Still on the fence? 

I completely understand. Every dollar invested in your business and self growth is an important one! Send me an email and I'll help you decide if the elite membership  Is right for you. 

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