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March 30, 2023

FILED IN: Money Mindset

Money causes a lot of friction in most relationships, with our parents, with our partners, and even with ourselves.  But it’s often a lot deeper than just managing the right budget, or making more money, often, these frictions and frustrations come from differences in our own belief systems around money, our lived experiences and our […]

March 20, 2023

FILED IN: Money Mindset

If you’re like most women, you probably have a love-hate relationship with money. On one hand, it’s great to have when you need it—but on the other hand, it can trigger some really big feelings when you spend it, don’t have it or it causes tension in your life. If you’re looking for a way […]

December 11, 2022

My Top Money Tips for the Festive Season… Christmas, November, and December always used to stress me out so much. Like anxiety vomit in the middle of the night kind of stress.  It’s less so these days. But for a long time, the festive season used to bring out the worst money guilt, fear and […]

October 2, 2022

FILED IN: Money Mindset

So you want to manifest a tone of money right ???? You’re saying the affirmations, setting the intentions, wearing your selenite, visualizing yourself with your check from the universe …. so why isn’t it working ?

August 21, 2022

I’ve always been the responsible one, the empathetic one, the one that gets on with her work, the one that organises the group, the one that people come to vent their problems …I was proud of that, I thrived in that .. until I didn’t.

August 6, 2022

Women Supporting Women

Support is more than commenting on a Facebook post or engaging in a poll. Support also means paying women for their products, services, and time that helps you, in turn, grow your business.

July 4, 2022

FILED IN: Money Mindset

Google Search preview tool Manifestation blind spots you might not know about

The universe is always paying attention, so when you contradict your manifestation with these subconscious blindspots, ignoring opportunities that are present

July 4, 2022

“money the constant dream crusher” was my Facebook status in 2014, When once again I was scrolling real estate websites, knowing I could never afford the homes